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Ad: ’I’m no longer feeling tired or self-conscious’

The idea of a traditional slimming club never appealed to Ad. He felt he needed something he could focus on in his own time, in the comfort of his own environment. After finding Second Nature, he has now lost over 21kgs! 

Where did your journey begin

My starting point was heading towards morbid obesity, getting out of breath simply walking about, and disengaging myself from seeing and meeting with other people. Sitting and snacking alone and getting ever heavier. Not great.

I started Second Nature in August 2019, signing up on a whim, as I’ve never been attracted to ‘diets’ and the thought of meeting with others at a ‘fat club’ or being locked into a salad-eating lifestyle has always been particularly unappealing.

Why this programme?

Because it’s science-based, so no celebrity diet fads. No meeting people face-to-face with the social pressures and awkwardness that may bring. Particularly as a bloke, ‘diet programmes’ aren’t always so obviously welcoming or aimed at male dieters for a wide range of different reasons, but this has been one I could engage with safely at home and on my own terms.

The Second Nature approach particularly tackled hunger for me. My snacking went right down because I’m eating three healthy and filling meals each day. The ‘guidelines of what should be on a plate and to both eat and avoid are simple, so no calorie counting. I no longer eat zero-fat (and to me, unsatisfying) foods, I can still eat unprocessed meat and fish and can choose the sort of vegetables I enjoy eating to make a sustainable nutritional change I can work with long term.

It took around a week after starting to sort out a menu selection that worked for me and since then, it’s been fairly straightforward sticking to it without it actually feeling like a ‘diet plan’, it’s just what I choose to eat and now it’s habitual.

Building up walking gently over a period of weeks has meant that instead of barely walking a few hundred steps each day, I now walk several thousand steps each day and more importantly I feel so much better, physically and mentally.

Phenomenal success

Over the 12-week main course, I lost two and a half stones (16kg) but have kept going with the ‘Sustain’ programme doing two further 4-week courses and have now lost over three stones (21kg) in total. I’m no longer ‘obese’, my BMI has recently crossed back into being ‘overweight’ so I’ll keep on with a target of a healthy weight followed by the ongoing ‘Sustain’ programme. It’s been good so far, but I’m some way from being done.

I’ve enjoyed the regular articles, especially the myth-busting ones, discovering that I had believed (and acted upon) diet myths that did me no good at all.

It’s been great speaking with the mentors, particularly with my group’s online mentor Deepa. Always kind and non-judgmental support, whether I was pleased with weight loss progress or grumbling about a period of plateau.

The biggest difference I’ve felt since starting the programme is simply no longer dreading a ‘long’ walk across a car park or up a single flight of stairs. I feel more energetic, more alert, and can get out and about meeting people again without feeling tired or self-conscious.

Some advice to your peers

If I can finish with my own advice to fellow Second Natureers, it’s that every week is a fresh week, any missteps are behind you. By keeping on & keeping on, following the process one day at a time, the weight goals can be steadily achieved as a by-product of eating healthily and moving about. Stick with it – it works.

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Tracey Preston
7 January, 2020

Well done and long may you continue I too started in August and lost 3 stone by the time Christmas came, Ive took a couple of steps back but know I can get passed it. So congratulations x


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